The point to suggesting a "selector gadget" was that it would take the place of the individual theme gadgets: instead of choosing a theme via Special:Preferences, editors would instead choose it via the selector gadget, and the themes themselves would no longer be listed on Special:Preferences. (I realize I forgot to actually say this before, though.)
Since the theme gadgets are designed such that they aren't conflicting if multiple are enabled, and alternatives to prevent this would involve extra balls to juggle for the gadget author/maintainer (and probably also flashes of unthemed content, before the theme has been able to load and be applied on the current pageview), it's probably better to just accept the current state of things - if Gadgets 2.0 is any indication, we're not likely to see improvements to the gadgets system for a long time.