I asked someone else who finally gave me the code for this (javascript), this is what I added in MediaWiki:Common.js:
Add a custom tab after "Discussion"
var ul = document.querySelector(#p-namespaces ul");//finding the list
var newLi = document.createElement("li");// creating a list item
newLi.innerHTML = '<span><a href="[insert external link]" title="[insert title]">[tab name]</a></span>';
ul.appendChild(newLi);//adding list item to list
Add a custom tab after "View history"
var ul = document.querySelector(#p-views ul");//finding the list
var newLi = document.createElement("li");// creating a list item
newLi.innerHTML = '<span><a href="[insert external link]" title="[insert title]">[tab name]</a></span>';
ul.appendChild(newLi);//adding list item to list