Thread:Project:Support desk/HELP!Failed to send email:ssl://smtp.gmail.com:465 SMTP: Failed to connect socket: Connection timed out (code: -1, response: )/reply (6)

try first doing a ping to smtp.gmail.com. If your host can't resolve that domain name, you have a DNS problem.

About what the administrator should do, that's not really important for you if you can't fix it yourself. Simply tell him your problem: from your host you can't contact smtp.gmail.com at port 465, and the administrator would know what to do (usually, open that port in the firewall for outgoing connections).